Who I could have been

Kaitlin was a dear and brought over my baby box (much more to come on that later) that has been living in her closet (aka my old closet) for the past 16 years. After she brought it over she started rummaging through it. And this is what she found...

Gals-
Juliet Ann
Courtney Ann

Guys-
Kristian Edlo
James Edlo/Everett
Marshall Edlo

Can you guess which one won?

Tag! I'm it!

My friend Allie tagged me!

List 10 random things about yourself and FOOD...

1. I don't like to eat foods that involve pulling with your front teeth (i.e. ribs, corn on the cob, artichokes). Don't get me wrong, I love the flavors, just not the method of eating. I think it goes back to my younger days when I had braces and that was a big no-no.
2. I went 19 years not liking or eating hamburgers. All of the sudden when I was 19 and carpooling back to college, I had a hankering for an In-n-Out burger when we stop to get a bite to eat. I've been eating them ever since.
3. I love to cook. But I never do because I live alone. And I enjoy trying new recipes.
   
4. I've been in the food service industry since I was about 7. Oh the joys of a family owned/run catering business. So cooking for 100+ isn't a big deal.
   
5. I don't like tomatoes. Unless they're in spaghetti sauce, ketchup, cooked on this yummy pizza, mixed with basil,olive oil, garlic and mozzarella. So basically, I don't like them fresh on salads (with the exception to this recipe), in my burgers, ummmm... Guess I'm kinda picky about how and when I like tomatoes.
6. I like all things sugar. Cookies, candy, cake, tarts, pie, etc. It's my downfall really. I'd probably only be 120 pound if I didn't have this problem.
7. When making brownies, I always lick the bowl. And the spoon. And if the batter isn't level in the pan, then I level it off and lick the spoon again.
8. Eating breakfast for dinner is a common thing. Pancakes, french toast, a bowl of cereal, omelets, etc.
   
9. I can eat a 2 pound bag of baby carrots over the course of a week. Eating them only during lunch.
10. Growing up my mom made dinner 5-6 times a week and we ate as a family. Because of that eating has been in grained in me as family time, or as a social occasion. I hope to one day instill in my children the same values that I grew up with. Dinner is a time for family to come together to talk and enjoy each others company.
    

Now I'm supposed to tag 5 people who like food...

I tag Kaitlin, Stacey, Paige, Krista & Amanda... (if you want)

Yank!

Call me brave. Call me crazy.

Today, after a massage I tried something new. I know right, I got a massage. It was great! The masseuse said I should come in ever 3-4 weeks because my shoulders were so tight and "full of toxins". We'll see.

But, after the massage... I... got... a... bikini line... wax. Honestly, it wasn't that bad. Seriously. For those of you who have had your eyebrows waxed, imagine that on a grander scale. But the pain still only lasts a couple seconds.

I just always been curious. And today I decided to check it out. That's all.

Social Styles

Last week I participants in a leadership boot camp. It was an intense 2 1/2 days. Mentally draining. Challenging. Well worth it!

One of my favorite exercises that we did was figure out what social style each of the 14 participants fell into. There are 4 quadrants: Analytical, Driver, Expressive, and Amiable. And within each of the 4 quadrants it breaks down further into sub quadrants with the same categories analytical, driver, expressive, and amiable. What you are depends if you ask/tell and how you control/display emotions.

So who would like to guess what I am? Come on, I know you want to. Fine! I'll tell you. I am a Driver Amiable. Which means that the main quadrant that I fall into is amiable, and sub quadrant is a driver.

So what does that mean you ask? I know it's all confusing and Greek I'm sure. Below is a list of my working style strengths...

• People-oriented; sensitive to others
  
• Concerned about others
  
• Encourages cooperation
  -serve as harmonizers
  
• Consensus-seekers
  
• Involve others; attend to group process
  
• Patient
  
• Good listener
  
• Team builders
  
• Good coaches/counselor
  

and potential blindspots...

• Too indirect, too nice - beat around the bush
  
• Passive-agressive (may not speak up to someone directly, but whine to others)
  
• Seem wishy-washy (too easily influenced) try to agree with everyone to avoid conflict
  
• Don't say no when they want to/should
  
• Overly seek consensus and others' approval
  
• Overly sensitive
  

Ding ding ding! We have a winner! The only thing I don't agree with...patient. If you know me, then you know that all of that is true. Can I get an AMEN?

So that is what I am, amiable. But I also tend to be a bit of a driver when I need to be. So what are the driver working style strengths you ask...

• Barrier buster - get results
  
• Have a sense of urgency
  
• Efficient in their work
  
• Appear confident...sure of themselves
  
• Clearly communicate expectations
  
• Willing to express their opinions
  
• Concise - direct and to the point
  
• Like challenges
  
• Willing to take charge/impose control
  
• Able to make decisions/take calculated risks
  
• Have high expectations of themselves
  

and potential blindspots...

• Push too hard with their own ideas
  
• Don't ask for or appear to listen to ideas from others
  
• Expect too much too fast from others
  
• Insensitive to concerns of others
  
• Intimidating...impatient
  

Yeah, I can get that way sometimes when needed.

Ok, so what does this all mean you ask. It means that I'm a people pleaser that can get a little bossy at times.

I also learned that we tend to be attracted to what is opposite of ourselves. Hummm...this made me curious. So I decided that I needed to ask Dennis (Mr. Alaska) the questions to find out what he falls into. I think it took him all off a minute to answer the questions as I read them off to him. Everything was one side or the other, no middle ground answers. See, now I've got your attention. Now you're curious. I'll report back another day with what Dennis falls into.

Just kidding! That means I'd actually have to remember to post a continuation to this blog. Too hard! So here you go...

Dennis is an Expressive Driver. So his main quadrant is Driver and the sub quadrant is Expressive. You already know what the driver strengthes and blindspots are, so I'll quickly tell you what they are for expressive, working style strengths...

• Energizing
  
• Motivating
  
• Upbeat - enthusiastic - positive
  
• Offer reinforcement
  
• Generate enthusiasm
  
• Visionary...often initiators of change
  
• Create excitement and involvement
  
• Share ideas and dreams
  
• Good brainstormers
  
• Fun
  

and potential blindspots...

• Too much, too high energy; can be draining
  
• Too big picture - don't provide enough details
  
• Too open to change (scope busters on projects)
  
• Move too quickly for others and/or without checking out assumptions or attending to details
  
• Like to work more on fun stuff vs. routine work
  
• Easily bored by slower paced communicators
  

From what I can tell, yes, that is Dennis! He's spontaneous, while I'm more thought out and planned.

Sorry this is long. It's good stuff. Really!

That means read it! I know, lots of words. Just do it!

For more information on social styles go here, or google it.