The good news is that dating success comes from consistently incorporating positive attitudes and actions into your lifestyle. These are "healthy habits" that ensure you become the most attractive person possible - and boost your chances of finding a fantastic partner! So let's start with these productive practices...
- Keep growing and moving foward. There is something enticeing about people who have identified their purpose in life, work hard to cultivate their abilities, and have goals they're moving towards. And when people are passionate about where they are going in life, we want to go with them.
- Be proactive, not passive. Many men and women want love, a relationship, and marriage - but they don't do much to make it happen. (guilty!) If you want to find a partner, you've got to be proactive and persistent. Patience may indeed be a virtue, but when it comes to finding the love of your life, so are guts and gumption.
- Step out of your comfort zone and take risks. Some people have no problem meeting, greeting, and forming new relationships. Others have a much tougher time pushing themselves "out there" socially. They/You/Me must summon courage, swallow anxiety, and plunge into social settings. If you tend to be reserved (guilty!) and restrained, there's no point in trying to remake yourself into an outgoing, life-of-the-party type. Be who you are, but be prepared to push yourself.
- Accentuate your God-given assets. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses that they bring to a potential relationship. The trick is to maximize your assets and minimize your liabilities. Look for ways to develop and utilize your talents, and try hard to curtail your shortcomings. The aim isn't perfection, the aim is to reach your full potential.
- Operate from a position of strength and security. Self-confidence is contagious, and self-assurance is highly attractive. You'll boost your odds of finding a partner if you become convinced deep down that you have a lot to offer. Believe the best about yourself and your future.
- Become a skilled communicator. There is an art to communication. And these days it's largely a forgotten art. The most average-looking person can be wildly attractive by becoming adept at listening, empathizing, asking questions, and making the other person feel completely understood and accepted.
- Remain steadfastly optimistic. Not only are upbeat, hopeful people more enjoyable to be around, but they also make for far better romantic partners over the long haul. Dozens of research studies have demonstrated that positive people are likely to achieve more goals, handle stress more wisely, overcome depression more quickly, and manage problems with far greater effectiveness.